UNcommon Sense: Adversity

One of the things I do in my position as Superintendent is observing how the staff and students handle adversity. It is not that I enjoy seeing others face difficulty. The reality is, as long as any of us are still breathing, we will forever face challenges. How we choose to respond in those situations says more about who we really are.

The last seventeen months as Superintendent, I have witnessed amazing examples of students dealing with tremendous challenges who, rather than giving in, choose to show up and work hard every day to further their education. I see staff consistently encouraging each other every time one of them is dealing with a difficult day, health challenge or loss of a family member. In a world where too often people look for reasons to not move forward, it is refreshing to see so many students and staff dig deep and continue on with their journey. It has likely never been easier, or more acceptable, to quit something than it is today. And it could be in some cases quitting is the right option, but it seems recently, it is too often becoming the first option once things get tough.

This past Saturday, our cheerleaders came face to face with adversity. Athletic Director, Daryn Brantley, summarized the situation very well in his post on the Marlow Outlaw Athletics Facebook page:

"In the 24 hours prior to their scheduled performance at 2:00pm on Saturday, these ladies were hit with multiple challenges that could have resulted in them choosing to withdraw from competition. Two squad members suffered injuries that would prevent them from being able to participate. And another member suffered from a serious medical issue requiring her to be taken to the hospital by ambulance. As a result, our MHS Cheer squad was forced to re-work their routine four times in the 18 hours before their scheduled performance. Thankfully, all of these ladies will recover from their injuries and/or medical issues. Unfortunately, the team missed qualifying for State Contest by just a few points.

Even though they didn't accomplish their goal of making it to State, we want to recognize these ladies (and coaches) for displaying true Outlaw Spirit! Just like the Marlow Brothers of old, they didn't give up when faced with unfavorable odds. They came together as a group and displayed the hard work, integrity, and perseverance that the Marlow Outlaws are known for!"

This is but one example of the Outlaw Spirit I am able to see displayed in our students and staff on a regular basis. I am personally inspired by those in our district. We have high expectations at Marlow and we do not apologize for it. While our goal is always to win, sometimes real winning happens with no trophies involved at all. Congrats ladies and coaches, you are all winners in my book!

Corey Holland is the Superintendent of Marlow Public School District